Hearthbreak...er heart

Hey guys,

As of Thusday night i found out that my girlfriend of three years had cheated on me some time in December, march, and two weeks ago. I feel really betrayed.. Last night she told me she was staying home to watch a movie, i called her about 2 hours later to ask how her movie was and chit chat. she didnt answer the phone so i went to sleep. at 3 am i got a phone call from some one at the bar who found her cell phone. I realized she lied to me about where she was at, no problem because she is free to go out whenever she wants. I talked to the person with the phone and we decided to meet up to exchange the cell phone. When i obtain the cell phone i looked at her recent calls/texts to find out where she was to give her the phone as well as i wanted to know what she was doing. Turns out she was with some guy named Jethro...jk. They were flirting in their texts and i called the guy cause i assumed she was with him...which she was. i promptly found out where she was called my dad for back up and picked her up from some house 20km out of town. I drove her home and calmly discussed the recent developements when i found out about the infidelity. I love her to death guys  but im heartbroken and i know i will feel the sting of loneliness in the next while. What should i do? Come on greens help me out here.

Also with the recent developments i havent decided if I am going to be moar active on WoW or less active. It may turn out that ill stop raiding for a short time just to let the officers know.

She's been lying to you....and cheating on you regularly.  You know what you have to do despite how much you care for her and I can promise you that no matter what she might say she WILL do it again.  Besides with her out of the way you and Jethro can finally be together.  Seriously tho, you deserve better then that dude. 

Rhaps correct about cheaters...most are serial cheaters unfortunately and it's usually best to cut them off before they hurt you further.  The girlfriend I had before Rhap cheated on me and I let her stay close, she kept cheating until I finally just cut her off entirely and I'm much better because of it.  Its been a few years now, and I'm able to talk to her as a friend and she doesn't effect me anymore which for me is a victory in itself.  Cutting her off from my life for a while helped speed the healing and helped me get to a better place, eventually finding Rhap .

Besides you have Jethro waiting for ya you'll be fine.

so you guys are telling me that jethro and i will have a chance??

Incoming blackness be not offended

bitches come and go I don't know you on a real  or deep level but if you gave it your all and she spit on you shes not good enough youll find someone better who knows maybe hes right under your knows err i mean she... good luck and dont let it get you down been there done that killing bosses makes all the pain go away. ps get online.

rofls u make it all better jethro that put a smile on my face

good

Sucks that she cheated on you, even more so because it happened more than once. 

If you still love her, then later on down the road (after the breakup isn't so recent, and after it doesn't hurt so much that she cheated) maybe you can be friends.  In the meantime, the advice to put distance between you is good.  It does help to get past the most painful part. 

It actually helps to be single for a while so you can re-evaluate yourself, who you are, what you want, and what you want in a partner, instead of just replacing your ex with a short term rebound relationship.

*Take all relationship advice from Arch with a grain of salt.. she has limited experience with significant others, is single, and wishes to remain single for a very long time.  She watches her friends go through this crap repeatedly, though!

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